So...My first blog. or at this stage, an online diary entry as no one will know it's in existance. So, it's vent time!

excuse any spelling mistakes, i am typing with a paper cut (actually I have a chunk of skin, from a box cut) which is now such a little insignificant but annoying all the same.

And that where I start. Insignificant annoyances. I lead a good life. I work, I make a living, I ventrued out and live alone. pay my bills. catch up with friends. fit in exercise (well, try....)  And what's missing from that list? Love. yes......the dreaded word LOVE. I'm 27, and havent been in a serious relationship. And so no, i havent had sex. So, let's start with the other night i was out to dinner, catching up with friends whom have recently all started relationships.....which is great for them. One of them even discussed moving in with him. And don't get me wrong I am so happy for them. But when I think back to when I was younger, I had never pictured myself at 27...still being alone!

So, when discussing the lack of love life in various conversations with a variety of friends often the response is i have to let go, have fun, sleep with anyone! - But when i think back to the dating... which never lasted long, I just feel that they didnt work so isnt it good that I didnt "sleep with anyone"? My theory is that if thats all they wanted, then they really werent worth it. Or have I been living in an ancient world where I expect respect before sex.

So, sex is not the biggest issue here. to me its an insignificant annoyance, which when meeting the right person wont be an annoyance anymore, just insignificant.

So, signing off, Lonely Kate. Just wanting to share life, friendships and potentially finding someone, who wants to spend time before heading to the bedroom.